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<h2>When it comes to savings, the general consensus is that you should set money aside and do your best to never touch it</h2>
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<p>In fact, there is a plethora of articles, self-help books, and videos out there that teach you how to build up your savings and avoid dipping into it. Some common tips you&#8217;ll come across include:</p>
<p>&#8211; Setting up a separate bank account for your savings<br />&#8211; Setting up an emergency fund for unexpected expenses<br />&#8211; Setting up a sinking fund for expected expenses (such as gifts, car maintenance, etc)<br />&#8211; Spending only after you save<br />&#8211; Adjusting your budget and cutting expenses<br />&#8211; Picking up side hustles to earn more money</p>
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<h2>The concept of &#8216;not touching your savings&#8217; was precisely what I adhered to and earnestly tried to follow during the first few years of my career.</p>
<p>And it worked&#8230; Until it didn&#8217;t.</h2>
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<p>Here&#8217;s the thing: During the first few years I started working, despite earning less, I still managed to save RM100 to RM200 each month, and even up to RM500 in a good month.</p>
<p>I even began employing the &#8216;save before you spend&#8217; method, setting up auto-billing to save a portion of my salary whenever it came in.</p>
<p>The funny thing is that as I progressed in my career, and my salary increased, so did my living expenses. It&#8217;s not like I was splurging on branded items or RM100 meals all the time, but having friends (and a partner) just meant that there were more things to spend on, and I was fine with that.</p>
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<h2>As I grew older, I also began to realise there was a lot more adulting that needed to be done — and most of these things cost money</h2>
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<p>Whether it was taking a flight back to Penang to see family every other month (RM200), attending friends&#8217; weddings (RM150 per wedding), or paying for car insurance and road tax (RM1,000), there were some months when there just wasn&#8217;t enough money to save, no matter how hard I budgeted.</p>
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<p>By then, I had already accumulated a comfortable safety net, or emergency fund, or whatever you want to call it. But I just felt like it was money I should never have to touch.</p>
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<h2>The kicker came when I went through three major life changes back to back: Getting married, buying a house, and having a kid</h2>
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<p>At each phase, I would still try my very best to budget and track my monthly expenditure meticulously. The only problem was that whenever there was an unforeseen expense, or a meal I had while eating out with friends, I&#8217;d feel super agitated because I felt I was &#8220;overspending&#8221;.</p>
<p>Naturally, I ended up having to dip into my savings and would often feel unhappy.</p>
<p>But then, a very wise person (a.k.a. the wife) one day asked me, <b>&#8220;What&#8217;s the point of you having savings anyway? Isn&#8217;t it so that you have money saved up for unforeseen occasions like this?&#8221;</p>
<p></b>That&#8217;s when my perspective towards savings started to shift, and I became a little more okay to dip into my savings. (But before you overreact, I have an explanation below)<b><br /></b></p>
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<h2>First of all, I&#8217;m not saying you should be dipping into your savings for whatever you want or splurging all the time just because you can</h2>
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<p>Behaving like this is dumb, and you&#8217;ll end up not having anything saved up for when you really need it.</p>
<p>But what I am saying is that it&#8217;s okay to dip into your savings for specific occasions or seasons of your life. And however much you want to dip into is entirely based on what&#8217;s important to you.</p>
<p>For instance, nowadays, I wouldn&#8217;t mind forking out RM500 on a big family dinner to celebrate a parent&#8217;s birthday or a family member&#8217;s milestone because, family is important to me. Or, if my wife and I need to dip into our savings every month to pay for our kid&#8217;s daycare — we&#8217;d do it because it gives us the time and space for our careers, which is something we both value.</p>
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<h2>One thing that has helped me come to terms with &#8216;touching my savings&#8217; is being intentional about what I&#8217;m using the money for</h2>
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<p>Back to the example of daycare, what I did was to take out a sum from my savings and say, &#8220;This is the amount I&#8217;m allocating for the year<b> towards this specific purpose</b>&#8220;, and I was okay with it.</p>
<p>Another thing that shifted my perspective was <b>understanding that everything is for a season</b>. I know that I won&#8217;t be earning the same salary forever, and I know that I won&#8217;t be paying for daycare forever either. Recognising that there are seasons that are more financially demanding than others has taught me to be kinder to myself.</p>
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<p>But along the way, I&#8217;ve come to realise that it&#8217;s okay if I have to use some of my savings once in a while or for a season.</p>
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<h2>Sex education is always a hot topic in Malaysia, especially when it concerns the teaching of the subject at primary and secondary school levels</h2>
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<p>Sex education teaches the anatomy and physiology of sex. It also involves discussions about human sexuality, sexually transmitted illnesses, and pregnancy (including how to avoid unwanted pregnancies).</p>
<p>We can see how important sex education is whenever instances occur whereby teachers openly joke about rape in front of their students. Rape and sexual harassment are serious problems that should never be taken lightly, much less joked about during sex education programmes.</p>
<p>It is incidents like this that make teaching staff and parents wary about allowing their children to learn about sex at a young age in school.</p>
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<p>Many teachers fear that inaccurate delivery of sex education would do the students more harm than good. Additionally, there is also the problem of lack of preparation amongst teachers, which results in students not taking sex education seriously.</p>
<p>The biggest concern for teachers is that in this age of instant access to knowledge, students are more likely to believe what they learn outside the classroom. This causes teachers to find it challenging to properly educate students about sex.</p>
<p>However, students may not receive accurate or comprehensive information about sex via alternative sources, which can lead to misunderstandings, confusion, and even wrongdoings.</p>
<p>For instance, students may be more likely to get sexually transmitted infections (STIs) if they are not taught the necessity of safe sex. Without proper sex education, teenagers may engage in harmful behaviour, from underage sexual activity to rape.﻿</p>
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<p>Parents frequently believe that their kids are still too young to learn about certain subjects. They may be concerned that talking to their kids about sex will lead to it becoming a common practice in their lives. They may also worry that they will be unable to properly answer their child&#8217;s questions about sex.</p>
<p>Another common concern for parents is that&nbsp;sex education will contradict their family&#8217;s values or religious beliefs. Parents who have strong religious or moral values may be unwilling to expose their children to ideas that contradict their beliefs.</p>
<p>This issue is related to some sex education measures that employ fear-based methods to scare students away from sex, such as demonstrating unsuitable graphic images or highlighting the consequences of teen pregnancy.</p>
<p>This approach is susceptible to failure, as it tends to make students feel scared, discouraged, and ashamed to study more about sex in the future.</p>
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<p>However, not all the content they consume comes from reliable sources. Due to their busy lives, parents also have less time to monitor their children&#8217;s Internet use. Without tight supervision and control, children can freely surf, watch, or read materials that involve sex.</p>
<p>Moreover, adolescents are susceptible to false information found on social media, in daily conversations with peers, in television shows or reading materials that contain pornographic elements, and in a variety of different sources that are easily accessible at the click of a button.</p>
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<h2>In conclusion, sex education is an important matter that requires extensive knowledge and the right methods of delivery, especially if we want to reach the younger generation</h2>
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<p>As a result, Malaysia must make comprehensive preparations, particularly in the area of education. In order to reduce the rate of sexual crimes in our country, not only is community acceptance of sex education very important, public awareness of it also needs to be increased.</p>
<p>Parents and teachers must be made aware to the numerous advantages to being taught about sex at a young age. This includes reducing the occurrence of harmful sexual behaviour, such as having unprotected sexual activity with numerous partners or having sex while under the influence of alcohol or drugs.</p>
<p>Ultimately, learning about sex might help students have a healthier lifestyle, as well as happier sexual relationships later in life. Sex education as early as school level is also very helpful as an early deterrent against sexual offences, which continue to increase.</p>
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<p><p><i>Nur Ramizah Safwah is a student at Islamic Science University of Malaysia, under the Faculty of Shariah and Law.</i></p>
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